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Make your goals visible

Write goals down even really small ones, and continue, to strive, to complete, them. Write them down, so that you can see them everyday, and don’t get in to the habit, of ignoring them. As soon as someone wakes up in the morning they should be reading their goals out loud. Think of how great it would feel to achieve them all, and stay in that mindset as long as you possibly can. Practice staying in the mindset, that all your goals are coming, to pass.

Speaking your goals, out loud! I believe is important, to keep, them cemented, in your mind. When I quit smoking cigarettes I used this strategy to help keep me motivated. I wrote everything, I hate about smoking, and when I wanted a cigarette, I read the list. This is just one strategy someone can use to help stay motivated. Speaking it out loud affirms to your subconscious, that you are serious, and cements this, into an action.

Add new goals often. New goals are important, because life continues, to roll on andwe should always be striving to be better and move forward. It is important for rest, but I honestly believe to many of us, have been resting for too long, when there are obstacles up ahead we should be working together to get through. I pray everyone finds their goals, if they have none.

Do you and your family have goals?

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Don’t live in the past

So many times in life, people live with regret. I have felt regret many times that I had not straightened out my life in time for my father to see me do good things. I am hearing lately not to look back. The past is already gone, and looking back, is preventing me from planning ahead.

Lots wife in the Bible was turned into a pillar of salt because she looked back. The past will not change the future, only we can change our future, by the choices we make today. I feel as the Father wants to shake His followers up, so they will look to Him instead of the past. The time for being lukewarm and comfortable is over.

Just like in fitness it takes work to succeed in anything worthwhile in life. Going back, most of the time means moving backwards. Look forwards and push towards your goals. The past is only important if we have learned from it. So learn from what had happened and live today, as your best possible self.h

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Faith In The Storm


Things in life, don’t always go the way it was planned. Do not be discouraged, because the Father watches over His children. We do not need to stress over the things we can not control because He is in control. I believe that many forget, to give, their will over to His.

Many put their faith in other people, and things without even realizing it. The hardest lesson I ever learned in life, was that we are not promised tomorrow. I was guilty of putting my faith in my father. I knew he wasn’t perfect but I depended on him, and when he passed, I realized that. I realized that the Lord is here for us but, most of us get distracted, and busy with life and put faith in others and things instead.

I pray for each person reading to have a revelation in their heart if they are putting faith in the wrong things. I pray each person reading I pray for guidance I pray for chains, to be, lifted off our minds so we can see through the lies, of the enemy.

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Just Shut It

I learn this lesson more and more every day. Even Thumper from Bambi knew that if you can’t say something nice not to say anything. The question is why is it so hard to live by this principle? The world bombardes everyone with negativity on a daily basis, and it is up to each individual how to handle this fact. Learning when not to speak, can be detrimental to someone’s career, and life. When I was a manager at zaxbys chicken, a fast food restaurant in Enterprise Alabama, there was an employee that called out all the time. One day I was just coming in for my shift and someone said something to me about that person. I was upset already for some reason or another, and asked “what, did she call out again?” I was not aware that not only, she was behind me, but she had also, volunteered to work a shift someone else had called out for that night. I then upset her so much that she didn’t work. If I had just shut it, the night would have been more of a success.

I have found that it is imperative to listen first, then think about what one wants to say and if it is important enough to say it. It is wise to think to oneself is this statement uplifting or beneficial to the person. Remember, what we talk about brings energy into the world it is up to each person as to what energy they are creating. Speak positive things into existence, and stop bringing negative energy, in your life and into, the life of others. A good way to practice this at home is through affirmations. Speak what one wants instead of what one sees or feels. Think positive and it will help you speak positive. It starts with one thought at a time.

Speak over every situation.