No matter how bad someone else hurts someone else, it doesn’t make it right to hate or be mean. Jesus was asked how many times we should forgive someone, and he said 70 times 7. I think that it doesn’t even mean that number at all. Forgiveness means to forgive and forget. So if we forgive and forget we can not accurately keep a count of how many times we’ve been hurt, because it’s forgotten. God is love, and for that reason it is wrong for us to walk in anything else. We are supposed to be a reflection of our Father so if we aren’t walking in His attributes or character, then we might be serving the wrong Father. Forgive each other, if someone has hurt anyone else, in ways that are difficult, to forgive, we might have to ask the Father, to help, us to let it go and forgive.
If we do not forgive each other, and love each other, how can we expect forgiveness, over our own faults. We all make mistakes, and if we are not expressing, the love of the Father, we are reflecting the wrong character.
It can be difficult, and irritating when someone sits at the green light in traffic to long and cause us to wait a few minutes longer. Practice walking in the character of Christ, instead of getting angry. When someone is Cursing and getting angry can be a reason for some to lose their blessing.