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Being an Example

Some think, that they are only hurting them self when they have bad habits. The truth is every negative or positive choice made, affects the world around the person. There is always someone watching, and even if there wasn’t the person making bad choices is releasing bad energy into the universe. The point I’m trying to make is everyone is an example whether they realize it or not. I’ve learned in order to be an good example, one must always be on guard about what they, say, do, think, listen to, or even what they put their eyes too. If someone is watching an adult program in front of children this can have damaging effects on how that child might view the world. If someone is listening to the radio in front of children, those children may pick up words and phrases that they should not know. It’s better not to even put the energy in someone’s own life, nonetheless, a child’s. When I was a older teenager I told a joke to another peer, not even realizing, my nephew was hiding to try and scare me. I got an earful, when I talked to my nephew’s mom. Someone should Be careful what kind of energy they let in their life. It could influence theirself or others. Positive in positive out negative in negative out.


My name is James Carter, and you are visiting breaking bad habits. I believe everyone has habits, good and bad. When I was 34 years old, I woke up and looked in the mirror. I was shocked, I had been drinking every night for so long, that I was fat. I weighed 355 pounds, and ran out of breathe and almost passed out to try and tie my shoes. This was the day I started to wake up. I had a long journey ahead of me, but with prayer, meditation, fasting and exercise I was on my way. It’s been 6 years since then I’ve quit most of my bad habits, and I’m down to below 200 pounds. I have to be honest, that day in 2014 I never dreamed I would have gotten this far. If someone like me can quit, so can you.

6 thoughts on “Being an Example

  1. “The truth is every negative or positive choice made, affects the world around the person”. This is apt. We need to be mindful of the words and actions that emanates from us.


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