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Never say a negative thing after what if!

When you say a negative thing after, what if, you are planning a seed, for something bad to happen. Don’t plant negative seeds, plant positive seeds. Even when trying to get your point across to a child. Instead of telling them to stay out of the road, so you don’t get hit, tell them the rules without planting the fear in them. Teach them to be smart, without criticism, this is one bad habit I am working on myself. You also have to teach them what criticism is and why it’s wrong. It is not good because kids that learn to criticize also learn to bully. Honestly I go through things everyone does. The trick is to realize your bad habits and do your best to break them, and replace them with good positive habits. You will feel better, each habit you break, is getting you one step closer to your best version of you. You deserve the best. Practice saying positive things after what if, instead of negative things. You will thank me later.


My name is James Carter, and you are visiting breaking bad habits. I believe everyone has habits, good and bad. When I was 34 years old, I woke up and looked in the mirror. I was shocked, I had been drinking every night for so long, that I was fat. I weighed 355 pounds, and ran out of breathe and almost passed out to try and tie my shoes. This was the day I started to wake up. I had a long journey ahead of me, but with prayer, meditation, fasting and exercise I was on my way. It’s been 6 years since then I’ve quit most of my bad habits, and I’m down to below 200 pounds. I have to be honest, that day in 2014 I never dreamed I would have gotten this far. If someone like me can quit, so can you.

15 thoughts on “Never say a negative thing after what if!

    1. They don’t what’s relative to you might not be relative to me. Define bad habits. Define good habits. Prayer is useless because it requires action, not frivolous chatter.


      1. This is not what I am here for, I am simply here to help those that feel as if they needed help with bad habits. If someone feels that they need help, they can ask for it here, and maybe get something out of what I go through.


        1. I understand what you are saying and you mean well, I understand that also. To help someone you take on a great responsibility over someone’s life you have to have life experience to teach someone. That is a given. To pray for someone to break habits is not going to do the trick. You have to figure out what motivates them to act out a certain way. I could no more counsel on alcohol abuse because I was never an alcoholic nor could I counsel an addict. Since I was raped at 12, I can counsel that because I know the motivators in a person’s life to do bad things lets say. I can over time correct that. That’s what I meant by having a metric a guidepost that you follow. To teach others.

          I have plenty of life experience, I am no where near perfect. I write what I deal with, on a day to day basis. I’ve had addictions and habits. I still do, in this day and age I don’t believe anyone can live a perfect life, without slipping up. I believe that everyone needs help in one way or another. If we don’t need help we wouldn’t be searching. I know I’m still searching, learning and growing. Thank you for your responses.


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