When you say a negative thing after, what if, you are planning a seed, for something bad to happen. Don’t plant negative seeds, plant positive seeds. Even when trying to get your point across to a child. Instead of telling them to stay out of the road, so you don’t get hit, tell them the rules without planting the fear in them. Teach them to be smart, without criticism, this is one bad habit I am working on myself. You also have to teach them what criticism is and why it’s wrong. It is not good because kids that learn to criticize also learn to bully. Honestly I go through things everyone does. The trick is to realize your bad habits and do your best to break them, and replace them with good positive habits. You will feel better, each habit you break, is getting you one step closer to your best version of you. You deserve the best. Practice saying positive things after what if, instead of negative things. You will thank me later.
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My name is James Carter, and you are visiting breaking bad habits. I believe everyone has habits, good and bad. When I was 34 years old, I woke up and looked in the mirror. I was shocked, I had been drinking every night for so long, that I was fat. I weighed 355 pounds, and ran out of breathe and almost passed out to try and tie my shoes. This was the day I started to wake up. I had a long journey ahead of me, but with prayer, meditation, fasting and exercise I was on my way. It’s been 6 years since then I’ve quit most of my bad habits, and I’m down to below 200 pounds. I have to be honest, that day in 2014 I never dreamed I would have gotten this far. If someone like me can quit, so can you. View All Posts